TIME & TIDE - waits for none- TRUE !!!

“The one thing I don’t know why,
 It doesn’t even matter how hard you try,
Keep that in mind I designed this rhyme
 To explain in due time,
 All I know…
 Time is a valuable thing
 Watch it fly by as the pendulum swings,
 Watch it count down till the end of the day,
 The clock ticks life away its so unreal…”

These are lyrics from the famous song “In the end” by the famous band “Linkin Park”.

Truly said, time waits for none and especially now a days That the age is running too fast for all to catch up except for those who run or should we say trying to run …!!!
Whatever be it... time management is the problem …being faced by generations together ….not only students but also to those who are to complete assignments , the young , the adults  who are to meet deadlines… and so on .

Ever thought that what would be the probable reasons that we are finding it real hard to cope up with our time… and end up wanting 30 instead of 24 hours? Probably that also would take time I suppose..!!! The main problem is thinking pattern nowadays adopted by we people…we think too much about relationships (unwanted ones), we give importance to quantity than quality (accept when buying Levis or a Flying Machine!!), we give too much time to partying, and we are too sentimental nowadays …it may seem too weird but yes …if you just look down the lane you probably wont find this kind of problem. One should not only try to control them selves emotionally but also see that they give time to themselves at the end of the day to think that what they really are up to!!!

It’s not bad to lose that emotional thing but keeping it at bay when working is very much important.
Even seeing the happenings at the corporate house`s  you would probably see the need to fill up the emotional cavity within one self …people try to get In relationships  and here is were time management takes a back seat another thing being squeezed into your already pack schedule is of course a head ache ..and you just can’t help it when it worsens further with you being involved in that relationship more than ever. Now this whole was the explanation for those who were wildly swinging their heads when they were reading the above lines. And now the steady headers chance .

Whatever we do of the life it  must sincerely reflect when we see ourselves down the lane after reaching a stable position in life or say after 10 years from now…think always that.when ever you would have a chance to look back on your yester years you should always feel light and happy about it …and no doubt you shall feel a different current in u while you do whatever you want to.

In the present, may be if the youngsters follow this rule they may get to see themselves more responsible for whatever things they do. And what is better than that!!!Things should be taken in stride …not only this include jealousy, hatred, competition, back biting…and the list never ends ….whoa! We forgot …the big “F”~~ failure~~ my friends is the sweetest word to me …cause it smells of another chance to make it all even better, a possibility to do things in a new style, and above all to see the value of time with more maturity …the essence of the whole piece of writing as I put it…

In short is to really tell my friends that by buying a watch for a 10,000  bucks wont easily bribe the time and it just wont let you over take it …this life and time is a race my friends and you just cant afford to morning walk every time ,go through the main focus of the problem you are facing and you will see money,future,thrust for superiority its main point .Try to START taking things on their face ,managing them and why not to just solve or at least try to solve that particular point u find is the kick start ??? And you shall hello!! Win the whole race …!!

 Best wishes to rock “keep rocking”[not pelting!!]

SAOUMA GHOSAL

"BALANCE - BALANCE" - Huh! Really ?

Its all about balancing equations isn’t it???
When we talk of equations we talk of balancing
them or proving them and this thing to say we are
taught right from class 5 onwards ... we must have
been genius in it until now . Isn’t it?

Now if we compare the two equations
i.e. the gujjars and the women!!! . What??? really???...are they comparable?
Well, i say yes [see, don’t we and the politicians often talk of
bringing the other classes equivalent of the society!!! ] history supports me in saying that before independence in developed nations. Neither women nor any other caste where given reservations.
So it comes round in India as…
Before independence:-
Women= no reservations, gujjars=reservations (untouchable’s)
After independence:-
Women = no reservations, gujjars=reservations(O.B.C-since 1952)
After 60 years of independence
Women= still no reservations, gujjars= fighting for even more reservation!!!

Condition in these years:-

Before independence
Women =gujjars =bad condition, low standard of living
After independence:-
Gujjars =worst conditions. Women’s=still more worst conditions
After 60 years of independence
Gujjars =apt conditions. Women’s= being compared and considered equal to men!!

Now, how come women who are still fighting for reservations are in a
better condition and the strong willed, heavily muscled gujjars are in a not- so- upholsted position ? We know that, it is the inner feeling of achievement ,the inner push of a vow  to do something, which provoked the women to pass and surpass  the gujjars .

Didn’t the gujjars noticed that in spite of the fact that she’s still rebuked in the parliament by those who wish to`` help one and help all” for the 33% reservation grant …outside the honorable place…the same people puke and see them as a potential threat when in front of the honorable chair.

Keeping in mind that until now the gujjars are included in the OBC
genre [ which means that they are more privileged than the women ]
are they really not  taking on the view that by having sheer will and
determination [and not reservation !!! ] the women are where they wanted to be.


The equations above just show the status of both, that nor, have
been privileged enough. If talking of gujjars  we talk of a community were both men and women are present. Is it not their responsibility that they see to their community as a child who has to be taken care of as women has taken of herself !

It is not necessary to always look up to government for each and every problem which sprouts up in locality or to cry and to throw tantrums like a child not taken care of . Should see the women’s actually, or better think of the women who ultimately takes care of all no one cared for her up till now .But still she cared for all, she studied facing hurdles and finally built a niche for her self in the society
isn’t it ?


The government in the eyes of a teenager is a mere service provider .They think the only thing which bugs its service providing capacity is the human controlled manipulation work . Other wise to them it seems as a paying ,non responsive , argument provoking , jokeable piece of institution
So, how come gujjars and even the women’s are so much relying on the government to do good to them . When things are controlled better by ourselves then why to drop  tears on the waterproofed  shoulder .

It should be remembered that never had any institution held back the forms just because
they were marked S.C/S.T/gujjars or o.b.c. and  yes neither women. so it
would be unfair to say that no opportunity is being given to any of the “equation statements”.
Yes, but as earlier said that those who know how to make hay when the sun shines only resides with a glitter under it.


Or as goes the darwins theory… so very rehearsed... time and  again…
“Survival of the fittest”… and here as goes the equations above that
pushing yourself to the hilt is necessary…
cause some or the other way pushing your self pays…and that sure is proved!!!

SAOUMA GHOSAL

Gazing Still :O

GAZING STILL????

writing is not something which everyone does.....specially in this age of technology were jabbering over is made so easy with wireless devices sticking to u every time, anytime .writing is one thing which u will do when your teacher almost sits upon you to complete your notes and get them checked ....ever noticed how we pound upon such thing when our need for it arises???? For example all you will need to do is write a letter lo and behold all the time you were busy in [*bunking*] classes ...you are in a matter of second excused citing your unusual type of excuse you have requested your teacher to excuse to read ...as in ---"excuse me mam" and passed on the letter in a fashion as if you are almost into confessing your love for her in a letter....and now in your minds you thank your mumma back home for whacking you hard to complete your ABCD homework!!! Hah! Isn’t it??? so this was writing to save your asses going red !!! You loved penning every bit of it!!!

And now what about writing plane, simple, thoughtful piece, something which makes you think, imagine such things you would never probably dread doing, going or making it in real life (that is in case if u imagine yourself ending up with Angelina in bed!!!) .writing just doesn’t give that high any more i guess...i mean at least at one time it used to for sure! Otherwise why would Shakespeare waste his time on writing plays and not spend time with his wife...at that time may be Rakhi Savant wasn’t hogging our tv screens or Omar Abdullah wasn’t shouting what good and bad he is up to or adrenaline wasn’t going up and down watching MAN-U play or Sachin hitting a yet another ton !!!There were green, green, greener pastures there was tranquility in air that made men sit and pen down all .what should be done to get back that enthu among ourselves???? ....{and come-on don’t give that tree saving, environment saving crap...not all the 1.3 billion Population is sitting to write after all} of course we can’t bring all those blessed things back but still penning down is a way of self interpretation of thoughts the much needed time for OURSELF`S ...isn’t that thing something which we all need???i mean see the poet in you which peeps out when you are down with a loveria ? Or the writer in you which starts scribbling non-stop [irrespective of where the pen is going and were the paper] in exams?? My teacher always told ..."beta at the end of the day you have to learn not write your own ramayan every time” the teacher by ramayan meant the writing i did depending on how i felt about the particular answer at that particular time!!!...and the result being my answer sheet screwed up by the nib of a deadly red pen by writing the word "absurd , too long , unnecessary" i dint understand then ...i mean they wanted us to write ...i wrote -then came the dialogue "teacher hamari bhavnao ko kabh samjhenge?" [When will teachers understand the feeling behind the writing he he ] and I cudnt agree more. so, what we need is a reason, an occasion, a compulsion .Okay so what’s the big deal ...if we can sometimes shamefully and sometimes in a shameless way lie to others what’s the deal if we persuade ourselves into sitting and penning down once or twice a week ?it can be a stomach aching gossip, your vain thing for the Armani shades or even criticizing your beautiful neighbor which you of course can’t do it on his/her face- hey its for "your -own-self" come-on stop –JUST reading.. Start PENNING! I bet you will be clear in mind and at your best every time .

cheers!!!

SAOUMA GHOSAL